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3. Honest with others. Now this is what should follow if we have come clean with ourselves and come clean with God, and it does to an extent. But sometimes even at our best we are still tempted not to be honest with our fellow man. It is not always the easiest thing to do. Fear is the great enemy that creeps in and tries to rob us of our integrity in our relationships, fear of what others might think or do if we are truthful with them. If we allow this fear to keep us from being honest, then our relationships will never be what they ought to be. Our relationships will never be the deep, beneficial, intimate relationships that could truly enrich our lives and bring honor to our Maker.

2. Honest with God. A person has to come to a place where that they are honest with God. You might as well be honest with Him, for there is no way that you are going to pull the wool over His eyes. Now I don’t believe anybody in their right mind would deliberately lie to God but I believe that it is possible to do it in a willful sub-conscious way if that makes any sense. But if we take the first step of practicing honesty with ourselves than honesty with God will come much easier.

Honest with ourselves. Honesty begins with me, I have to be honest about myself, about who I am, what I am, how I act, how I feel and how am I relating to God and to my fellow man. That can be painful at times but it is a pain that can bring healing into our lives. If I will come clean with myself about all my personal issues as well as public issues than I can begin to move forward if I so desire. Just being presented with the truth in itself is not enough, I must act in accordance with the revealed truth for it to benefit me.

Relationships, the crux of our life’s are comprised of relationships. Yet sometimes it is the one thing that we neglect or fail to give our most urgent attention to. The truth of the matter is that we as people were created to live in community with other people, we were meant by our Creator to have (I believe) good relationships with our fellow human beings with whom we share this planet. If you study the teachings of Christ Jesus you will find that He taught extensively about relationships. He spoke of our relationship with God and our relationships with each other. He knew that life was not made up of material things or the trapping of this world that alludes to our selfish nature, but that life was made up of relationships.

In speaking about relationships I think it should be pointed out, what exactly makes for a good relationship? There are numerous things I could point out and I am sure that there are many varied opinions on what makes for good relationships, but I like to speak briefly about what very well could be the most important part of any healthy thriving relationship. That thing I believe to be most important is honesty. Simple, yet such a powerful concept when coupled with love.

Honesty, the word rolls so smoothly off our lips doesn’t it. Most of us consider ourselves no doubt as honest people don’t we? But are we really honest? Are we honest with ourselves? Are we honest with God? Were we honest when we have an initial consultation with a divorce lawyer in Austin? Are we truly honest with others? These are questions that we should ask ourselves and strive to answer honestly. Let us break down the process into steps so we can embrace this concept in a way that will benefit ourselves and also the people in our lives.

If you really want to have a good relationship then the first and foremost is the priority of the relationship. Your relationship should be your first priority because we can go to any extends to achieve first priorities of our life. Then we can take out time also to be with our beloved. We must not put work before relationships.

Next is empathy. Empathy is somewhat inherent. It cannot be developed. But if we think about our loved ones before making things better for ourselves then our loved ones will realise how much we love them. We should not be selfish rather we should be empathetic in nature.

We need to be patient and full of love. There should be no space for anger and misunderstandings. Even if your partner is short tempered and complains frequently you should always remain cool and calm. Make him/her understand your point in a very polite way.

Spend quality time with your partner. Never ever forget any special occasion, anniversary, birthday, etc. Be the first one to wish your partner. And don’t forget to give a wonderful gift along with a bouquet of flowers. Besides this you can do some exciting things to surprise your partner. You can go for a date, arrange a surprise party, get something that he/she is planning to buy.

Enjoying a good relationship is great for promoting happiness.  It takes two willing people to have a good relationship.  Both parties must be able to understand that there will be a mixture of giving and taking.  It’s best if both people practice ways of giving in their relationship.  However, having a good relationship starts with one important thing.  Each person must be able to recognize his or her self worth.  He or she should be able to firmly state that they love themselves.

In order to love someone else one must be willing to put up with themselves.  Promoting this self-love is simple.  You should be able to live with yourself and not need or depend on someone else to stimulate you.  This means that you should give yourself a treat every once in a while.

After you have created a love of self, you must then extend this out to the person with whom you have the relationship with.  Convey the very qualities that make you happy to that person.

Set yourself up for success with them.  Conversations can inspire conflicts or resolutions.  It’s important to have a good idea of how your values mesh up.

Second, you must both be willing to practice the art of compromise.  Without it, you will both fail.  Many compromises that involve finances, children etc… require that you exercise your values system.  Everyone has a different system of values.  You must know where your partner stands on his or her ethics or values.

Third, don’t take yourself too seriously.  You should never try to attain to perfection.  This only sets you up for limited pleasure.  Enjoy mistakes, learn from them.  When your partner messes up, don’t berate them.  Use loving words to resolve issues.  Saying, “We need to talk,” is different from saying, “Honey, when you’re up for it, I just wanted to talk to you about this.”

Finally, relationships are a mixture of emotions.  Be ready to deal with stress, happiness, hate, love and all the like.  Don’t look forward to someone else being there to please you.  Look forward to doing all you can do to make it better.

Many songwriters express their feelings and emotions with song. They create a romantic ballad for the one they love and in turn, reaching out to many others who may be feeling the same way. People who are in love tend to relate to love songs, and enjoy listening to them. They not only relate to them, but feel someone else out there is feeling the same way. However, people who may be depressed or not in love, tend to shy away from love songs.

This proves there is definitely a relationship between music and love. Love comes pouring out of certain songs and makes us feel a sense of romance and longing. People often escape through music or find a release with it. Music has always been a great source of happiness, serenity, relaxation, and hope. The following are some examples of love songs we have heard throughout the years that have always made us feel at least one of these emotions:

• I Will Always Love You
• I Got You Babe
• How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)
• The Power of Love
• I Can’t Fight This Feeling
• Unchained Melody
• Time After Time
• The Way You Look Tonight

We use these songs in a variety of ways. Some examples would be Weddings, Anniversaries, and Birthdays to name a few. They help us to show someone how we love them.  The connection between music and love is usually obvious when we hear a romantic song, or certain songs make us reminisce about a certain someone, special event, or time in our lives.

Our lives can be shaped by music. Usually a certain time in our life goes with certain music, like a soundtrack. We tend to identify with music so much when we hear a song or artist we remember a certain time in our lives. And since love is so important in our lives, there is no question that the connection between music and love is very strong.

There are a number of ways we communicate with each other.  For example, we use language of various sorts—writing, speech, and sign language.  This would include the love poem and the love letter, not to mention the impassioned request on one’s knees for marriage.  We use visual means of communicating, such as signs and art—the lacy valentine traditional in February.  But a truly special way of communicating is through music.

The reason we have so many ways of communicating is that there are things that can only be expressed in one way.  It’s hard to ask for a salami sandwich by playing a Mozart sonata, so language is good for that.  But the feelings that go along with love are very difficult to put into words—and that’s why we have music.

There are many types of love music to choose from—every culture and form of music has some way to express love, which is not surprising, since both love and music are universal human experiences.  Classical music, particularly in the form of opera, has wonderful love music possibilities.  Opera was the soap opera of the pre-radio and television age, so love was a common theme.  Sometimes it was love that was lost and then found, as in the comic operas of Mozart or Rossini, and sometimes it was love found and then lost, as in La Boheme.  In any case, all these operas include great love arias (operatic for “song”).

In addition to opera, there are some pieces of music without words that we associate with weddings, such as “Here Comes the Bride,” which is actually the Bridal Chorus from Wagner’s opera Lohengrin, or Pachelbel’s canon which is often played at weddings.  These pieces of music have a stately feeling to them—solemn to a certain degree, but also with incredible beauty—which expresses the feelings we often have at weddings:  both happy and in awe at the power of love at the same time.

If classical music is not your favorite, you can find love in other types of music—country, rock, Cajun, old time, Celtic, jazz, and so forth.  After all, not only do you want to listen to music as you might with classical, but you will also want to dance together.  A slow rock song or country song (not the crying in your beer type, though) makes for great dancing possibilities.  In short, music helps us to communicate to our loved ones things that words cannot say.

Tereza Kesovija 16.11.2007. godine nastupa u pariskoj OLYMPIJI. Nakon uspešnih koncerata koje je održala 1988. godine, i 2007. ce publiku podsetiti na svoje najvece hitove nastale tokom 47 godina duge karijere.

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